NO! I don't have a problem with it. Obviously. But... 2 weeks camping with my mother-in-law, being home for 2 weeks getting unpacked and settled back into a routine... and I swear if I hear that comment from her one more time, I just might have to scream!
For 4+ weeks now... since the kiddo got all his top teeth in at once... my mil makes comment about me still nursing him, at every chance she gets. Standing around at a shop and someone talking to the kiddo says something to the effect of "Look at all those teeth you have." MIL pipes in with "Yes. And she's still nursing!" As if it is any of their concern or business what I am doing with my b*oobs.
Mind you... I'm not at all private about that. I am very much a public nurser. Church. Restaurants. Mall. Walking through the store. Zoo. You name it. I am not at all concerned with "whipping it out" and feeding my kid. And we don't use a cover up or blanket... so it's all out there for viewing. I tried several times with a cover. But he just grabs it and pulls it off because he doesn't like his face covered... so I gave up. Public nursing it is.
But, when we're nursing in public, that's MY call. I get to say how it goes and who gets to know about it. (You'd be surprised at how discreet we can be nursing in the carrier. Most people have no clue what's going on.) It is NOT for her to say who gets to hear about what I do with my b*reasts.
And it's not like she is proud of the fact that I'm still nursing him. Her tone does NOT come across that way at all. More like I'm some weirdo. She usually follows the announcement with a story about how she nursed both her boys til they were around 6 months and then when they started getting teeth decided she'd "had enough of that" and weaned them. Like her way is the way it should be. (2 weeks camping. Got a lot of that. "I did it this way with my boys and they turned out just fine").
Good for her. But, that doesn't work for us. We are going strong, with no intention of stopping anytime soon.
And I don't fully understand WHY it is such a big deal to her. Sister-in-law nursed the nephew until he was a year old. Granted, she weaned him practically the day he turned one. But... he had teeth and nursed til then and nothing was ever said about it. So, I'm not sure why it's a big deal for me to be doing it. I can only imagine the comments that will come when I don't wean him at one and tell her I plan on going until he's at least 2.
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Saw a very close friend a few days ago. Hadn't seen her in a while, so she hadn't seen the kiddo with all his teeth. Asked me if I was still nursing. Yes. Asked "but doesn't that hurt?" So... I gave her this analogy: "You have a mouth full of teeth. Does it hurt when you give a guy a bl*ow job?" We both laughed. But, then she understood... having never nursed a baby. Teeth don't matter.
Maybe if MIL continues... I'll use that analogy with her.
