Saturday, December 23, 2006

HAPPY HOLIDAYS!



Season’s Greetings!

We hope this finds you all doing well. It’s hard to believe the year is already nearing its end.

Our 2006 was all about a baby. We learned on March 2, we were expecting, and from there on out… for obvious reasons… baby things seemed to take over our lives. Morning sickness, ultrasounds, and doctor visits were a big part of the first half of the year. Baby continued to grow and thrive. Kat’s belly just grew.

The end of May, we learned we would be having a baby boy. Eric and Kat were both thrilled with the news. Kat had said from day one it was a boy, so was glad to be right… and Eric was glad to be carrying on the family tradition of baby boys. We already had a name for him, but much to other’s dismay, we chose to keep the name to ourselves until baby was born. It drove both of our moms a bit crazy, but we certainly had fun with it.

Before we knew it, we were over half-way through the pregnancy and preparing for our annual Copper Harbor vacation. The weather in the U.P. was unusually warm this year! Unlike past years where we’ve done lots of sight-seeing, visiting old, familiar places, we spent much of our time hanging around camp and relaxing. Every afternoon, Eric and Pepper would go for a long walk and Kat would nap. Family and many friends were there… and while we would often go our separate ways during the day… you could count on meeting up with everyone in town in the evening for ice cream. The trip was a much welcomed break and an ideal vacation.

We returned home to baby showers and preparations. At her family shower, all 3 of Kat’s great aunts arrived from around the country along with her aunt from Utah and cousins from various states. It was a very big and wonderful surprise to have everyone together to celebrate our little one. The biggest task in preparations was to complete baby’s nursery. A friend of Kat’s came over and painted a mural of animals on the walls. Eric stripped and stained his old dresser for us to have in baby’s room and did a fabulous job with it. He also painted and hung shelves for the many bears in our Build-a-Bear collection. It is a much talked about and well loved room because it looks so incredible!

Music seasons started back up in the fall. Kat continues to ring handbells at church… but decided to take at least the fall season off from playing with the Scottish Rite Orchestra… something she started doing last year and enjoyed. Their first concert was scheduled a week before Baby’s due date… so she didn’t think it was something she could easily commit to.


On November 12, we welcomed our son, Andrew Eric Jay, into the world. His in-utero acrobatics had him wrapped up over 3 times in his umbilical cord, which meant an emergency c-section delivery… but Andrew and Kat both have done well and recovered nicely. Pictures and stories and updates on Andrew’s development are shared on our blog for family and friends to follow: (SORRY. Blog address deleted. You know my rules about Baby's Blog. EMAIL me if you want to see it.) Feel free to give it a visit and leave a comment or two!

Eric took some time off to be with Kat and baby, returning to work on November 27. Kat is now a stay-at-home mom, having left her job at KinderCare in mid-October. Pepper has adjusted nicely to having a baby around, and is quite the protector. Andrew is a beautiful, happy baby. He eats every 2-3 hours and naps in between, with a good 4-5 hour stretch at night. Every day brings something new and wonderful and we are very grateful for the blessings in our lives.

We couldn’t be any happier or have asked for a better year. Many wishes and prayers that 2007 brings all of you much peace and love and blessings.


Kat, Eric and Andrew

Tuesday, December 12, 2006

Andrew's Arrival-- Some Final Thoughts

First of all, thanks for being patient with me while I got those four long posts out. As much as I know you all wanted to hear the story, the great length and detail in it was purely for my benefit. I want to remember as much as I possibly can about that day and blogging was a good way to document it.

Honestly, it's been one month and I still can't believe he's really here and he's really mine. In those wee hours of the morning when we're up for a feeding, and I'm sleep deprived and hormonally emotional, I look at him with such awe and amazement it completely melts my heart. It has been such a huge adjustment, yet I can not imagine life without him in it. Everything just seems so perfect. He's perfect. And I am completely in love with him. Yet, everyday... it seems my love for him grows. How is that possible?

My life is forever changed. There's the obvious external things. Like, before Andrew was here, when I'd go to bed at night, the fan had to be on for noise and the room always had to be completely dark. I even put a small stuffed animal over the alarm clock because the glow from the numbers would bother me. Now... the fan is on, but turned down to low... and there is a nightlight right next to my side of the bed so I can see Andrew as he sleeps. And the sleep deprivation is so much, that I don't even notice those things. He goes down, and the minute my head hits the pillow, I'm out too.

It has been an amazing month. Yes, a month. I can't believe he is already a month old. I swear we just brought him home yesterday. But, our month has been full of adjustments. Getting to know Andrew. His likes and dislikes and needs. And him getting to know us. Sometimes I feel bad because the hubby will be holding him and he'll be fussy and nothing will work... and then I'll take him and he'll calm down. I remind hubby not to take it personally... I have the magic, milk-making boobies and Andrew knows that. But... I do still feel bad for hubby in those moments. Andrew knows him and loves him, it is quite obvious... just not so much at those times.

He's growing and changing each and every day. And I keep loving him more and more. There are literally, times when I feel my love for him so strong and so deep it brings me to tears. I cried the first time I held him in the recovery room... when I finally had a calm few minutes to just look at his face and take in everything that had just happened. And to realize that this tiny, little being was, in fact, my son. MY son. A living, breathing part of me. And an equal part of the most amazing man I know. How incredibly blessed are we?

One month has passed already. And I look forward to each and every day and month we have to come.

Tuesday, December 05, 2006

SMILE!!!